What About Insecurities?
Some basic pointers about insecurities
I am sure that people have, at least one time in your lifetime, tried to make you feel bad about any of your insecurities, but remember, everybody is insecure in one way or another, and also, there are ways to help you deal with feelings of insecurity.
What do you want to be?
In this life, a lot of things are reduced to what you want to do with your own existence. Every single person on this planet can judge you, but only you know the truth about yourself and what you want to do in life. Maybe you thought that feeling insecure every single day was the only way of living for somebody like you, but once you discover your true worth, nothing can stop you anymore.
Everybody is insecure
I am sure that when you see these rockstars, singing in front of gigantic crowds, the last thing that might cross your mind is that they are insecure, but believe me, even they doubt themselves. No human being is totally immune to doubting themselves every now and then, as human nature is fragile by its own definition. Some people, with time, just get better at hiding it.
What are you afraid of?
It is going to take a while, but it would be nice if you could look inside you to try to find what is really stopping you from living the life you dream of. Yes, I am sure you could answer something like money, family difficulties, lack of study, among many things. But think about what kind of internal barriers are stopping you from living the life you would like to. Do you think you are strong enough to make your life what you want to? Or maybe you doubt yourself a lot?
Bitter Memories
Maybe you are just insecure because, in the past, a lot of people made an effort to try to make you feel incapable of doing something good. Perhaps you got a lot of harsh criticism from those who were supposed to help you and protect you while you grew up. But know that their treatment of you wasn't your fault. You deserved to grow up somewhere where you were allowed to group like a healthy and fully integrated person. Now that you grow up, is the right time to start working to leave these painful memories in the past, where they belong.
You Deserve Better
No matter how many times embittered persons have told you that the only thing you deserve is pain, you gotta realize that you deserve simply to be happy. It doesn't matter what you did in the past. You no longer live there. Try to forgive yourself, and go ahead. There are better things waiting for you, as long as you are brave enough to get them.
Step by Step
No matter how hard or capable you are, there is no way you can turn your life around in just one day. All the good things in life take time, and overcoming your insecurities is a lifelong process, so be patient with yourself. Dont put yourself down if you feel as if sometimes you cannot keep going. All that is a part of the process. Trust it.
Inner Force
People might doubt you all the time, people can make you think that every single thing you do is wrong, but is up to you to decide if you listen to them. Remember that you are stronger than what others might say or think about you. No words can harm you. Never forget it. Nothing coming from the mouth of another human being can break your soul.
