Starting To Embrace Self-Love

Patricia Pixie❤
2 min readJun 29, 2023

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It is never too late to start loving yourself

Photo by Sarah Wolfe on Unsplash

In the vast tapestry of life, we often find ourselves entangled in the web of other people’s opinions. We seek validation, acceptance, and love from those around us, yearning for their approval to fill the void within. But amidst this fervent pursuit, we may forget a crucial truth — the importance of loving ourselves first.

Why do we place such weight on the opinions of others? Why do we allow their judgments to shape our sense of self-worth? Perhaps it is the innate desire for connection, for belonging, that drives us to seek external affirmation. Yet, in this quest, we risk losing sight of the most essential relationship we can cultivate — the one we have with ourselves.

Before we can expect others to love us, we must first love ourselves. It is in embracing our flaws, nurturing our strengths, and honoring our unique journey that we find true self-acceptance. It is in this self-love that we discover a wellspring of resilience, compassion, and authenticity.

When we prioritize self-love, the opinions of others lose their power to define us. We become anchored in our own truth, guided by our inner compass. We understand that our worth is not determined by external validation, but by the love and respect we cultivate for ourselves.

So let us release the need for external approval and turn inward, embracing the beauty and complexity of our own being. Let us nurture our dreams, passions, and quirks with kindness and self-compassion. As we learn to love ourselves wholeheartedly, we radiate a magnetic energy that draws others towards us authentically, without the need for pretense or masks.

Remember, you are deserving of love, not because of the opinions of others, but because of the unique essence that resides within you. Embrace your worth, honor your journey, and celebrate the remarkable individual that you are. In the sanctuary of self-love, you will find the foundation to build genuine connections, where acceptance and understanding flow freely.

So, let us embark on a journey of self-discovery, where our own love and acceptance become the guiding force. Let us liberate ourselves from the chains of other people’s opinions and embrace the profound truth that to be loved, we must first love ourselves.

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Patricia Pixie❤
Patricia Pixie❤

Written by Patricia Pixie❤

Billingual writer/music lover/tarot reader/Interested in the mysteries of the human mind misspatypixie@outlook.com

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