Rethinking Self-Love: Beyond the Clichés and Into the Cosmos

Patricia Pixie❤
3 min readOct 8, 2023

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The phrase “self-love” evokes familiar images: candles, meditative music, perhaps a glass of wine or a favorite book. We’ve been told it’s the cure for nearly all our woes. But what if we’ve been seeing only a sliver of the vast universe that is self-love? What if it’s more than just occasional self-care rituals? Let’s embark on a cosmic journey, exploring an unconventional perspective on self-love.

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1. Self-Love as Cosmic Navigation

Space, with its infinite expanse, may feel overwhelming. Similarly, the path of life often feels vast and daunting. Self-love, in this analogy, is our North Star. It’s the compass guiding us through the obsidian nights, ensuring we don’t lose our way amidst life’s uncertainties. It’s not just about feeling good, but about having a guiding light to navigate life’s complexities.

2. Embracing the Multiverse Within

Recent cosmological theories suggest the existence of multiple universes, a multiverse. Drawing a parallel, each of us contains multitudes — different roles, emotions, and facets of our personality. Self-love is the acceptance of this internal multiverse. It’s about acknowledging and embracing every version of ourselves, from the radiant supernovas to the mysterious black holes.

3. The Galactic Ripple Effect of Self-Compassion

Consider the concept of the butterfly effect in chaos theory, where a small change in one state can result in vast differences in a later state. When we practice self-love, the effects ripple outwards. It impacts our interactions, our energy, and our very aura. This tiny shift in our internal universe can lead to profound changes in our external world.

4. Interstellar Conversations and Self-Talk

The cosmos is filled with wonders, some of which communicate through cosmic waves. Similarly, our inner world constantly communicates with us. Self-love means tuning into this inner dialogue, ensuring it’s kind, encouraging, and constructive. It’s about turning the inner critic into a benevolent cosmic guide.

5. Beyond the Horizon: The Unknown Realms of Self-Discovery

Space exploration often leads to unexpected discoveries. Likewise, self-love propels us into the uncharted territories of our soul. It encourages curiosity, introspection, and a yearning to understand the vastness within. In celebrating self-love, we become intrepid explorers, discovering galaxies of untapped potential within us.

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An Expansive Odyssey

Challenging the standard narrative of self-love nudges us to view it as a grand, cosmic odyssey. It’s not confined to bubble baths or spa days but extends into the boundless realms of introspection, self-acceptance, and growth. In the vast expanse of life’s cosmos, self-love is our trusty spaceship, ensuring we journey with purpose, passion, and profound self-awareness.

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Patricia Pixie❤
Patricia Pixie❤

Written by Patricia Pixie❤

Billingual writer/music lover/tarot reader/Interested in the mysteries of the human mind misspatypixie@outlook.com

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