My Lifestyle is Only Mine

Patricia Pixie❤
2 min readAug 8, 2023

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You cannot judge me, darling

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In the complex path of life, where every individual is but a thread woven into the grand design, the inclination to cast judgment upon another’s life is an impulse as human as the very breath we share. But let us remember, amidst the countless complexities that define our journeys, that judgment is a reflection not of the one being judged, but of the one who judges. We are, after all, imperfect beings navigating the labyrinth of our own existence, seeking purpose, meaning, and connection.

You cannot judge my life, for you are not perfect. Each of us carries our own set of experiences, triumphs, trials, and struggles, meticulously stitched together to form the unique narrative of our being. Beneath the surface of smiles and laughter, behind the choices we make, lies a realm of emotions, thoughts, and circumstances that often remains hidden from the casual observer.

How can we, with our finite understanding, dare to dissect the complexities of another soul’s journey? How can we claim to fully comprehend the motivations, fears, and aspirations that propel someone forward or hold them back? Beneath the façade of external appearances, a myriad of stories unfurl, stories woven from joys and sorrows, dreams and disappointments, love and heartache.

In casting judgment, we unknowingly reveal our own insecurities, projecting our fears onto others. It is the human condition to seek validation and security, often by attempting to ascertain our own worth in comparison to those around us. But what we fail to recognize is that our own imperfections render us incapable of rendering flawless judgments.

Instead of casting judgment, let us strive to embrace empathy and understanding. Let us remember that every life is a symphony of triumphs and trials, and within each note, there is a melody that deserves to be heard without prejudice. The choices we make, whether they lead us astray or guide us towards our destiny, are the threads that shape the tapestry of our existence.

In the end, we are all wanderers navigating a world rife with uncertainties and unexpected turns. We carry within us the duality of light and shadow, and it is in this delicate balance that we forge our paths. So, let us lay aside the gavel of judgment and embrace the humbling realization that, as imperfect beings, we are all walking the same uncharted journey of life.

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Patricia Pixie❤
Patricia Pixie❤

Written by Patricia Pixie❤

Billingual writer/music lover/tarot reader/Interested in the mysteries of the human mind misspatypixie@outlook.com

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