Heartache to Happiness: A Whimsical Journey Toward Healing

Patricia Pixie❤
2 min readOct 17, 2023

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Heartache is a rite of passage in the rollercoaster of life. It’s like the universe throwing a tart lemon at you. But who says you can’t make a sweet lemonade out of it? Here’s a lighthearted guide on turning that frown upside down and dancing in the rhythm of healing.

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Step 1: The Breakup Bash

Who says breakups only call for a tub of ice cream and tear-soaked pillows? Throw a breakup bash! Gather your pals, play some upbeat tunes, and celebrate the end of a chapter and the beginning of a new one. A little party never killed nobody!

Step 2: Adopt a Plant

The world of flora is rich with lessons. Adopt a plant and watch it grow as you water it daily. It’s a living reminder that with a little love and patience, new beginnings can bloom from the dirt.

Step 3: The Ex-box

It’s time to pack away those mementos into an ‘Ex-box’. And no, we’re not talking about a new gaming console. It’s a box where you tuck away the souvenirs of love past, making room for new memories.

Step 4: Hobby Up

Ever fancied painting, salsa dancing, or knitting? Now’s the time! Dive into a new hobby. It’s a fabulous way to channel your emotions creatively and meet new people.

Step 5: The Self-Love Affair

Date yourself! Take yourself out to a fancy dinner, enjoy a movie, or spend a day at the spa. Rekindle the romance with the person who deserves your love the most — you!

Step 6: The Gratitude Journal

Start a gratitude journal. Every day, jot down three things you are grateful for. It’s a gentle nudge to remind you of the positives surrounding you.

Step 7: Laugh Out Loud

Laughter is a heartache’s nemesis. Watch comedies, attend a stand-up comedy show, or simply share laughs with friends. A hearty laugh can sprinkle magic on the gloomiest days.

Step 8: A Helping Hand

Extend a helping hand to those in need. Volunteering can provide a sense of purpose and fulfillment that’s heartwarming.

Step 9: Fitness Flair

Exercise is a mood-lifter. Whether it’s yoga, running, or a dance class, find what moves you and shake off the blues.

Step 10: The Future Flick

Create a vision board of your dreams and aspirations. It’s a peek into a future filled with possibilities, far away from the heartache alley.

The journey from heartache to happiness is a whimsical one, filled with self-discovery, laughter, and endless possibilities. So put on your fanciest pair of shoes, and dance through the healing rain, for the sun will shine brightly, heralding a new dawn of joy and love.

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Patricia Pixie❤
Patricia Pixie❤

Written by Patricia Pixie❤

Billingual writer/music lover/tarot reader/Interested in the mysteries of the human mind misspatypixie@outlook.com

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